Wow, I'm also a newbie here. I've been reading the posts on this site often and have read DB. I'm amazed at how similar your W words were to my W words after also going through the initial phase of begging, pursuing, crying, etc. Things quickly moved from talk of a S to D very rapidly. I'm sure due to me doing all the wrong things at first.
My W is leaving me as I type this. She also said she plans to file next week. I failed to stay the course, and immediately begged her to give us some time. Ouch!!! She quite simply told me "It would be best if you tried to move on".
I remain hopeful that things can turn around if I seek and adhere myself to the advice of the many vets on this site.
I will be following your sitch, and at some point seek some advice in mine. I hope and pray that you find some things that work for you, and hope to gather some great advice as I read about your developments.
