I have read through and followed this thread thoroughly! I have learned from the advice & also learned that even though all situations are similar, there are different things that work for different people/personalities...I am by no means in any position to give advice given my own current situation, but I would definitely want to be where you are today Denver! To have a chance at true reconciliation & to have grown & realized what is truly important would be ideal for many of us on here. You are one lucky man to have a second chance at what you truly want. I applaud you for how you have handled yourself & truly hope/pray that I am where you are at some day (second chance).
On another note: You guys have me rolling on the floor with your recent posts and whatnot about reading the diary
God Speed Denver!
Suppo
Thanks Sup! Although I would say that this particular thread has nothing on some of the stuff that you can find in the archives. For me, Jack3beans, Truegritter, and 2stepboogie's threads offered me much of what i learned. My threads carry a lot of good advice from many vets as well.
You can learn a lot by going back and reading through some of these.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce