RH ..I don't know what it is about either.. why can't our H's just be happy? I guess its not really that simple - but it really is that simple!! I know this much, for a long time I was unhappy in my marriage. One reason being that I have spent so much time alone.
I had thought about leaving many times over the years, but kids and limited earning potential always held me back. It was only when H dropped the bomb that I felt differently and panicked about losing him. It is true that we want what we can't have. When I started to think about the effects of losing him and our life together and all that went with it I realised I had very few reasons to be unhappy in my marriage. He is a good man who has always worked hard and been a good provider, never abused me or drank heavily, always loyal. So what was wrong with me all those years. Human nature...the grass has got to be greener on the other side.
I guess they just have to figure it out for themselves. Lets hope they do for all our sakes. In the mean time we just have to get on with things.
