Correct me if I am off base, but it seems the more you detach the less like you are to move forward on the D? What I mean is the more you WAS dosen't have to think about you the less compelled they feel to "get it over with". Is this designed to give you time to create a more positive impression?
Detaching is to give you space to heal and at the same time it gives the WAS space too.
CODEWORD DIVORCE = SPACE
SO by giving the SPACE the D becomes less imperative.
Remeber that this is counterintuitive, what is up is down and left is right. So anything you are thinking logically is probabaly the opposite of the the way it works.
When you learn how to drink coffee while sitting on the ceiling and using a fork then you will have this mastered.
