Arsene - In answer to your question, your thread was locked due to being over 100 posts. Thanks for starting a new thread.
I haven't read all of your threads, but your last post on the latest thread by a longtime respected DBer mentioned you really are not on the DB track, haven't read DB/DR, etc.
That's ok....to help you understand the DB skillset, check out hte Keeping Love Alive or Divorce Remedy Forums. The skillsets/techniques are noted throughout.
