I have been reading through DR again and just finished the part on act as if. I had a thought for something I could try this weekend. My W and sons are at the beach and will be back on Sunday. So far when I see her I have been friendly but distant. I was thinking when I saw her next I should act as if we were still in a good place and greet her accordingly. By this I mean act excited to see her and the boys, ask if they had a good time, etc.
I'm not going to pry or invade her space, I want to try being friendly to see if she opens up more.
We haven't been fighting or anything so maybe I should try something different than being dim.
I have a couple days so anyone's advice would be greatly appreciated. I may be way off the mark. I don't know.
BTW this message was typed on my phone. Sorry for any errors.
Me:27 W:30 S1:3y/o S2:8m/o T:5 M:3 Bomb:5/16/12 W moved out:5/16/12
