Correct me if I am off base, but it seems the more you detach the less like you are to move forward on the D? What I mean is the more you WAS dosen't have to think about you the less compelled they feel to "get it over with". Is this designed to give you time to create a more positive impression?
I know it has been said on here a million times in my short time on the forum, but my biggest fear would be if my W dosen't have to think about me the more likely she is to move on.
Does the LBS detaching reverse the WAS' detachement, or is it just a matter of setting yourself free?
Me:27 W:30 S1:3y/o S2:8m/o T:5 M:3 Bomb:5/16/12 W moved out:5/16/12