Well of course your controlling now. Ndad does not want me to date and sleep with other men when were married...
Personally I would not have left the house. Nor the bed. But with you going away to school again out of state perhaps now is not the time to go back. That I will have to think about. But I would document why you left and what you thought it would do to save the marriage. I would also document all the times you got to be with your children and if you were stopped from seeing them. Document your sessions with IC.
You cannot stop your wife from sleeping with other men. Only she can do that. You have control over if she is your wife. Right now I would say legally yes. That is all. And treat her as such. Cool , calm and collect with a dash of respect. Maybe stop lending her your car so she can do some shopping. Just cut it back to kids and only kids.
I was reading on shrink4men about a site that has a community that may help with your addiction. Linky
Check it out.
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