The above information from the vets, good stuff!!!!!!!
It’s quite ironic that you posted on my thread. (BTW, great comments).
I just read your sitch yesterday and I went, WOW, this sounds familiar. I am actually somewhat surprised there’s not more sitches on this site that allude to financial difficulties being a major factor for why people are here. It took me A LONG time to finally come to terms that it’s “not just money”. It’s what’s behind it, what it stands for, security, etc….
In a way I sometime’ s envy other people’s 180’s. Some of them are things such as being more understanding ,controlling or temper issues, etc…. I know everyone’s 180’s can be very difficult. For me, the finance one seems like the hardest 180 of all, even though I know that’s not true. What are your 180’s?
That’s great that you’re not apologizing and not asking for forgiveness. It’s also good to hear that you’re not having the “fixer” mentality. It sounds like you’ve done a lot of reading up, that’s great!!! The vets on this board are just awesome. The advice you receive here will be so helpful as long as you have an open mind. You and your W have been married a long time. I know the pain you’re going through. I am really glad I found this site and I am sure you will quickly learn the value in it as well. Take care of yourself Suppo!
