I know, I know, famous last words but I have access to all his internet accounts and his cell phone is still on my plan etc. so I could see who he calls and texts. Plus, he's always home and he still wears his ring etc. And, it's so not him he would just divorce me and move on if he wanted an A. We have no joint assets so there is no property to divide and a divorce would be easy. I thought he was really depressed for awhile and maybe BP so I have tried to give him space/time. I think that he is unhappy with himself and projecting and so he says he wants a divorce and then realizes he's unsure and backs off.
