Hi hopefulinga,

Hope you're doing better. Just read some of your sitch and you seem to be really struggling with detaching. IMO you might seem clingy to your H. Give him some space. Don't write to him. Don't tell him everything you are doing. Keep some mystery about your life. If he asks, then tell him, but just answer his questions, don't volunteer too much.

See what that does and adjust your behaviour accordingly. JMO.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then