Originally Posted By: chatterbug

How is the divorce coming along since you have been served ?


Right now we are in divorce limbo. In Utah the court must allow a 90 day waiting period before considering the petition. The relationship is pretty much going down hill though. She will not speak to me at all and even when we do see each other she will not look at me. She has unfriended me on Facebook and has changed her name back to her maiden name there. I even heard through a relative that she has gone through and unfriended anyone who "might be a spy" for me. Never mind the fact that I would not ask anyone to spy on her for me. That would be a total violation of my agreement to allow her to have her space. But at the same time it does give an indication of where her mind is right now when it comes to me.


M 39, W 34
M 15
S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6
Separated: 7/2/2012
Served: 7/10/2012
Divorced 11/5/2012