I'm loving this discussion. Go ahead and keep putting your positivity out there! One never knows what or who it might attract. Sure makes you someone that people want to be around though.
Snodderly's advice is awesome. One thing you don't want to do is get in the MLCer's way and stop or slow down the crisis. Let it run its course because if it's not allowed to it will come back with a vengeance. It will not be denied.
MLC takes a long time. I believe that's why the reconciliation rate is so low. When the MLCer wakes up they find that the LB has moved on and created a happy existence without them.
