thanks 25...sadly it was my 4th dui..pretty ashamed of that. you are right though. thats what it took to get my head out of my you know what. i am glad it happened. yes the consequences arent fun, yet i need them to help me focus. i am going to be who i want to be.
i have been through hell and back. i am greatful for the journey. i have begun to find the peace i have been searching for for so long. i found out how strong i can be too. that is a blessing. today is my anniversary. W contacted me about dumb stuff. i kept it nice and didnt bring it up. it doesnt matter anymore.
you are very right.. scorecards have no place in marriage. i choose to remember the good times, which there were plenty. one day i hope we can be friends again so we can be successful co parents.
i have really changed my outlook on life. i look for positives in everything now. i seem to find them too..lol
here is to quotes i really like..
"you need to stand in the rain in order to see the rainbow"
"when life gives you lemons, you paint that sh1t gold"
Dakota
LIfe feels different without the alcohol. Pay attention to who drinks alot and who doesn't. It's going to help you to make choices which are sustainable over the short term.
"Be a man a fool would leave"? Sometimes they are being a fool chasing "fools gold", don't get upset behind it.
