I don't think that because his W hasn't said anything doesn't mean their not going to make it. I just think that it would relieve alot more anxiety on everyone's part if she owned up to her part. Right now everyone's still walking on eggshells and if she hasn't figured out deep down why she left in the first place without any C, it COULD come up again.
But what do I know. I'm Batman.
That's a nice cutesy sentiment, but this is substantially different.
I mean how many times do we tell LBS that a divorce decree is "just a piece of paper." Wouldn't a marriage decree be just a piece of paper without the feelings behind it. I mean we all know of marriages of convenience right? Are they real just because they have a piece of paper.
Also, are people in a committed relationship not entitled to the apologies if one side strays because of the lack of a piece of paper?
I'm not excusing Denver's W's behavior by any means. I think it was cheating, but I wonder how much different things would be if instead of a S Denver's wife got a D, dated the OM, broke up and wanted to R. Do you think Denver would feel that different?
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
