can Turtles still stand?

[strongerthanever]

So that question is for you. Why D, unless you need to? What does D "mean" to you? What are your reasons to D? How does D... serve you...?

Good one! This is the very reason that I attended the initial status confrence at court and then neglected to proceed with completing the required paperwork. fwiw, H has not completed his part either. I just don't see the urgency in having a divorce decree, or how it would change my current realtiy.

I love the part about standing vs feeling confused. I think lbs feels in limbo bc they feel the need to label their state of mind vs forgetting about it all together and moving on/acting as if.

In light of everything it causes me to once again look at myself.