but nope, the hint I was talking about was specifically about the "investigation". What did your coach tell you about, "flirting" with your H? ie. Getting to know what needs he is fulfilling with the OP
and no, lol... it does read interestingly, but it's not about spending time with the OP... Think of it this way, there are some things you can certainly guess. Such as physical and emotional connection, "freedom", fun, variety / new experience... what else?