Should I initiate R talk?

[MrBond]

Let's face it. You haven't even read DR yet, so you don't know what DBing truly is. You're not "breaking any rules" if you do what I suggested. You're just afraid.

"I guess you ask what I've "stopped" doing because I havent' stopped analyzing, right?"

No. I'm asking have you stopped giving her money, enabling her, making things easy for her, etc.? You went out of your way to do everything for her but got nothing in return.

"I was just wondering if mentioning where I stand about D8 meeting OM was also something I could do."

Yes because you are the father. You don't know what kind of character this scumbag has. In fact, anyone who goes out with a M woman isn't a great guy to begin with.

You have a right to establish boundaries.