well then i should laugh at myself - i've spent the last couple of days alternatively crying and saying to myself - get over it zig, enough now. it's time to get past this


this is a process and each step brings up new feelings..

our confidence must come from how we have not only survived but grown through the preceding levels..

it is as if our spouses are actually our zen masters.


yes!! you're sounding more like the zen master hereif you ask me.

and in between my two emotional states, i try to remind myself of how far i have indeed come

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"