You make the changes, she will see them eventually. Quit worrying about that part. You will shoot yourself in the foot if you try to push yourself on her right now.
Shooting myself in the foot seems to be my specialty right now. I wish I could take all the things that I know now and go back and tell my younger self what I had learned. I would do so much different.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012
