I fall somewhere in the middle of all of this. I believe that I had success utilizing both approaches. It all depended on the situation at the time. Unique situations need unique solutions... using DB as the framework.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce