The big question I have is when I make all of these changes that I need to make in my life, if she never sees them then how does it help our relationship? I understand that they make me a better person and I am all for that; however I am also all for saving the best thing that has happened to me in a long time with one of the most amazing people I have ever met.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012