Should I initiate R talk?

[Arsene]

Sorry MrBond, I guess you ask what I've "stopped" doing because I havent' stopped analyzing, right?

About your solution, I have to admit that it's what I feel like doing but at this time, before I read DR, I am nervous about this. It seems like a very strong an approach and I don't even know that I'm somewhere where I can even begin to make demands on W. In the past, I have told her that I didn't agree with OM and that I didn't think it was right but for now, until i read DR and figure out exactly where I am, I'm reluctant to do more.

With regards t the rest, I think you are right. It's what i thought this afternoon. I need to go dark and stick with it, no matter what, but I also need to remain courteous but no more than I woulds to a neighbour.

I was just wondering if mentioning where I stand about D8 meeting OM was also something I could do. If setting some sort of boundary about that would be ok, and how I should do it. Especially that it's something we had talked about in the past.

Now, I feel like a doormat. Like she can walk all over her and I just take it because I'm afraid to send her running further. It looks to me like she's about as far as she can be anyways.

I can't wait to get DR.