Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: chatterbug
The issue I have with it is that people will excuse away so much poor behavior by labeling it MLC when it really is someone doing extremely selfish and hurtful things because they feel they can. And when they are given the excuse of oh MLC. Then they just feed of being enabled.

And the LBS excuses it away because they do not want to deal with the reality that yes the person they love can actually be a hateful , hurting person who really does not care at this point in time the damage they cause.

NOPE I don't agree that anyone here is giving out the advice to excuse it away.


I did not say that.


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