Yup, you are correct. I can think back to times he's gotten pretty mad that I've had contact with an exboyfriend, or a man called the house and wouldn't tell him who he was after he asked for me. I am in the business world as well and know it doesn't occur that often.
H is technically not going out. He takes our D to dinner when I teach at night and somehow this person ended up there. So, I was out. The only thing he does after work is sit around his hangar with his buds having a beer, and generally comes home by 7:30. My being out the house on the weekends when he is not there is another story and something I need to work on.
And we did have an honest conversation about the dinner thing almost 10 years ago. But that never stopped my anger or jealousy. Why, I don't know.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together