Just Found Out About The OM, What Now?

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If there's a chance your wife is considering an affair but isn't in one yet--I think you have a short-lived opportunity to GAL, do some 180s, and let her know you want a better marriage.

I would not sit back and let this happen. Think about what your 180s could be and also think about what she'd find appealing in an OM. (Attention, warmth, an escape from the realities of 5 kids, etc.)

By the time I figured out my H was in an affair, he was in deep and addicted. You need to do all you can to make your wife re-think things before she goes much further.

Have you considered talking to a divorce busting coach?