That's what I am trying to do in the only way that I know how. If I make myself a better man than anyone else she is going to find then the chances of her going and looking for someone else get a lot smaller. Considering how much hostility she feels for me right now I don't know what else I can do that will not drive her further away.
Don't do it for her, do it for you. Who says your not a better man already? Just reclaim yourself, enjoy your life and take care of yourself.
You know as well as we do, being assertive, etc is going to push her in the arms of the other guy. While she has her rump right on your face for emotional support. I would let her go live with him and wouldn't talk to her, while I enjoy myself.
I'm not a fan of cheating in marriage, but finding a freindly relationship partner for compansionship will go along way for self preservation.
You can do some of the affair busting tactics, but you need to have enough intel to deliver these measures properly. I think you should do this too, while you 180 and live your own life.
