Cavalier and fatalistic, yep that's me. You could also say I'm passive and a doormat and it would be about right too. But honestly I don't know what else I could do in that situation. Despite what my W thinks right now I am not a confrontational person. Honestly I just don't know what there would be to do.
You aren't being a doormat at all. Your showing her your not beneath her and her crappy behavior. If you feel its best for you to let her go ( go live with the other guy and let him take care of you ), then let her go.
