Well, right now I am prepared to step back and let her have her relationship while I continue to work on myself. If she wants to have an EA or PA there is not a lot that I can do to stop her at this particular moment. I would certainly reevaluate whether I wanted to remain married to her if that happens, particularly after she treated my pornography problem as the ultimate betrayal of her, but I am not sure that would be a deal breaker if she decided that she wanted to get back together.
Sounds awfully cavalier and fatalistic to me, NASCAR. Is that how you want to teach your five kids -- especially your two sons -- to deal with an attack on their family?