Originally Posted By: needgrace
dear sweet zig,

i have been reading your posts but don't know what to say..

i was laughing yesterday about people who tell us to "just get over it".

"oh, okay, that's what i need to do (said sarcastically)"...

as if it were something we could just decide to turn off..

this is a process and each step brings up new feelings..

our confidence must come from how we have not only survived but grown through the preceding levels..

it is as if our spouses are actually our zen masters.

((((( )))))





Dump a bucket of paint on their head and tell them "get over it".