After going for a long walk to clear my head, I have begun to question if there is an OM. Here is what I know objectively. W has been posting profiles on dating websites, she went on a lunch date with a guy last Monday, and she was shopping for lingerie yesterday. Although there being an OM does fit the facts as I have them; I admit that it is not the only possibility or even the only reasonable possibility.
If wife has been posting on dating sites, you need to accept these facts as she is looking for someone.
