I've heard a lot of things from the kids over the past few months.It is sad.
Keeping being the rock. God willing they will eventually realize the impact on the kids and they can then begin rebuilding with them.
All you can do is listen. Sometimes that is all they want.
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans