Fair enough. Hopefully, at some point soon, a good MC/FT who specializes in helping both BSs and FWSs with infidelity can help you guys sort thru all that.
Starsky
Yes. I think that I've mentioned that my W presently does not want to do MC. She is in IC though and that seems to be helping her tremendously.
I've thought about IC for myself. Right now though, I'm just not sure that i want to drudge up feelings that may or may not really exist within me.
I find myself happy about 90% of the time right now. At least where my M/R with my W is concerned. I do realize that it is early though. And it's not just because she is back in our home. I found new strength in the period of time in between me asking for a D in early May and W coming back in the latter part of June. I feel that I found my mojo again so to speak.
It is kind of a relief to just feel that I am letting go of the past and am focusing entirely on our future.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
