[/b] And you have demonstrated that you're willing to give her a pass on it, for a whole host of reasons. Furthermore, your wife is a very intelligent and intuitive woman, and I think she is well aware of this vulnerability of yours.
Starsky
I don't see that all. I mean. he was going divorce her in May and the OM was a big part of it. I don't think that's a free pass on it.
Or are you saying that he's giving her a free pass on her being contrite about it? Because, that may or may not happen.
And what message is Denver taking from his W's agreeing to work on things. I mean from her POV she has fear that he suffered no consequence from his years and years of being a horrible husband because - in the end- they stayed married?
Not sure that I get the question either Harrier. But I do agree with you on the fact that I don't feel that I gave her a free pass on her actions.
Yes, I did for several months. I didn't agree with the choices, but I understood why it happened. After 17 or so months of showing her that I had changed and that things could be different, and her continued inability to forgive me and continued inability to completely eliminate OM from her life, I stopped giving her that 'free pass'. That was when I told her that I wanted the D.
Maybe I should have done that sooner. I don't know. Either way though, I'm pretty confident that my W got the point.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
