Okay…now we can get to thereal work! Why no..no…WHAT are you insecure about? Height? Weight? Intelligence? Penis size? Sexual stamina? What are you really feeling dude? Be honest (not with me with YOU). I wish I could get you to see that these demon of insecurity when faces CAN be defeated and when they are…You buddy will change. And Change for the BETTER. The other option is that you never really face them and keep living your life the way you are now. YOU CHOOSE.
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I have tried in different ways to enjoy time with W, but she is always saying no. She has been a bit cold for the past days, not wanting to do anything, quiet, and not even saying hello when I come home from work.
Then try something else. Try leaving her alone. Try FOCUSING on YOU. If she does not want to do anything then you call a buddy and go do something. As for what happened last night….do you think she may be seeing OM again? Honestly? As for her having time with her friends…maybe that is what she needs. I find ironic that SHE is the one that appears to be FOCUSING on HERSELF yet YOU are still focused on HER. Know why? Changes take time dude….they do not happen overnight, at least not the ones that stick. You feel you have changed but have you really? You are still getting upset, although not showing it, upset you get when she lives HER life. If I were you I would start looking for things to do by myself and with the kids….as for her…let her go. Have you ever heard of the saying…if you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be, if it doesn’t then it was not. I have been holding back saying something to you but I that’s not me so here goes… 1) When you met partner, she was married, as a matter of fact I believe she still is. 2) If she saw you while she was married, why does it come as a surprise to you that she would see some one else while with you? 3) Karma is a b*tch isn’t it. 4) I am not trying to hurt your feelings dude – really I am not. 5) Is some of your insecurity tied to how and the conditions under which you both met? AA, I think you need to sit down with yourself and ask yourself what is it that your really want, what are you willing to do for it and what can you really live with. What do you want AA? Really? What do you want in a partner? What do you look for? Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
