Good of you to post that after knowing you for 19 months Starsky!
I know, I know. Seriously, I was trying not to create any "LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME!"-drama. But it's only fair to be transparent about it now, since people are asking me, and for the reasons I state in my post above.
And thanks for the nice note. I know I bust your balls on occasion (like today! ), but it's only because:
a. I care; and
b. I've been there (and to some degrees, still am).
I've had to learn a whole lot about myself -- and my wife -- over the past five years, and some of it hasn't been pretty. But I've learned that it's emotionally healthy to get to know -- and to learn how to deal with -- yourself and your spouse AS THEY ARE, and not as some image on a pedestal of how you WISH THEY WOULD BE (if only you were a good boy, and said and did all the right things).
It's tough stuff. But sooooooo worth it!!
Starsky
I agree Starsky. And yes, I know that you always have good intentions and do care. Hell, why would you spend the time that you do here on this board if you didn't?! (I say this right now not having read your most recent 'busting of my balls' post that I assume is over on the piecing forum... LOL!)
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Seriously, I was trying not to create any "LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME!"-drama. But it's only fair to be transparent about it now, since people are asking me, and for the reasons I state in my post above.
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