Starsky, Two things, one a observation of ,yself after MLC and a question for you.
If someone came to me now and sain you said this or you said that in MLC, I would believe them and say I was one F up dude and chuckle myself and apologize. Thats how I know I came the whole way through MLC as well. A real grasp that i was messed up an hurt people.
If you talked to your wife now would she acknowledge the things she said or still feel justified that she made the decisions that she did?
I see my MLC for what it was. It was supposed to teach me something I was supposed to learn. I must have missed it the first couple times and so it decised to really pack a punch.
I am a much better person having come through it. At peace, balanced, content.