honestly, bte, i hope to be in your mindframe soon. i still feel like i want h to change, but you're right. it's selfish thinking. i want him to change for me, not for him. if he's honestly happier being the way he is now, then it would be selfish of me to want anything else.

still is difficult to get that through my head, though.

M:29
H:30
M:2.5 years
T:13 years
No kids
EA:11/2011
PA:01/2012
Bomb:02/2012
H starting another EA, I had enough and we seperate: 03/08/2012
Trying to decide what I want for a change...