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[strongerthanever]

Didn't expect another interaction so soon, but that's exactly what happened tonight...

H- hey can I take the girls to Cali with me
me- what you do on your time is your business
H- well I wanted to see if I could get them a lil early
me- No
H- Why do you have to be like that I understand its your week but I have not done anything wrong to you. Its not all the time I go home and I would really like for my family to see them
me- no one is stopping you from taking the girls to see their family. It just wont happen on my time
H- Im only asking for a few extra days that is all
me- stop asking and plan better
H- wow your something else Jamie. I awlays try and work with you and you cant even do this once. I hope you can think about it a lil bit more but thanks anyways
me- Not my responsibility to fix your problems. Leave me alone.
H- ok that's fine
H- what time can I get the girls on monday if you don't mind me asking


I didn't respond. He KNOWS I drop them off at daycare on Mondays at 8. And "I always try to work with you and you can't even do this once"? Um no you don't, stop trying to guilt trip me, you aren't manipulating me anymore.