Reading a little further along and also some side chatter in other threads, I really want to encourage the newbies to post any questions for clarification here, regarding the theme of this thread.
And I think that it's also appropriate to encourage newbies (and more long term members) to read in the Infidelity forum as well as the MLC forum to see if there might be more information that makes sense to them and approaches that they would prefer to follow.
