2) She was, and has been, very upfront about her R with OM from the get go. Brutally honest in fact. Yes, there were times when she was having contact with him while telling me that she wasn't. But I write that off to the fact that I had put her in the position of knowing that if he was in her life, that I would not be. She has said, and I a believe, that she did not know what to do at those moments. She was scared of losing me, but still had unresolved feelings for OM. So, I forgive her for those times knowing that she is generally a very honest person... and a terrible liar (which is how and why I always found out when she was omitting the complete truth).
Say wha'??? How is that being "brutally honest?"
Starsky
I was going to write a reply to this and lay out the specific things that I am referring to, but then I realized that my sitch is detailed ad nauseum on my thread. There is no point, you've read it all.
I get what you are saying. There were times where there were omissions of truth about contact with OM for reasons that I said in my post. But most of the time, she was honest about things when she could have easily tried to lie. And brutally honest about it when she could have tried to sugar coat things to make me feel better.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
How is that being "brutally honest?"
