So.

Why do you listen?

End the conversation. You do not have to listen.

Who cares if she is oblivious to the damage.

All that matters is that you take care of your kids. She is not able at this time.


You can lead here. Worst case you get some anger from her... so what.


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unconditional love is awesome!