Just to add that MLC doesn't have to last "years". In fact, it can last just a few months depending on the person's willingness to accept their life changes. Again, MLC is not a disease, it's a transitional period which some people handle better than others.
I do agree, bond. I know those of us who talk about MLC do stress the crises part. I personally look for transition OR MLC, because IMHO, they should be handled differently.
I am actually looking at some crises tools to see if there might be an application for those who have a MLC partner.
MLC is an opinion. It has never been proven. From my studies and from conversations with my peers in this area. Some pass it off as an chemical imbalance , others childhood regression.
There are a ton of others.
I follow the line of chemical imbalance with poor boundaries and an easy excuse.
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