Kaffe Diem-no way will I mention the medical things to him or he will go nuts on me with violence, more threats, and turn it around so I am the crazy one. One thing I did do was to tape record the phone calls with him threatening to kill me though. It certainly is a volatile dynamic. He is already pi**ed off today when I did not answer him on FB or his email. Made him paranoid and more manic than usual. Yes, I am getting the point he is not a typical MLCer and could be dangerous. Question I have is what do I do when he wants to come here and stay a few days again to see the dogs or go to the Art Museum with me? He will get crazy if I say no surely and again accuse me of turning on him. Yes, my specialty is intelligence and strategic analysis so I spend most of my time arguing my position with some very forceful military men so I do stand up well I am afraid. Also believe it or not I work with military men who have traumatic brain injuries, PTSD, and violent tendencies as well as inmates and violent criminals doing conflict resolution in the court system for those who have been violent with their regular attorneys, as I have a "special skill and calmness" that they find attractive. So I should know better, but by the time I come home I am so worn out my skills don't seem to work with the Cuckoo. He accuses me of using lawyer tricks on him and playing him, and says he is smarter than any lawyer.
