And for those who aren't fully detached and want to know something more substantive that has shifted:
+ a couple weeks ago I was joking around with D14 when I was picking up D9. We were talking about muscles and I pumped my arms for D14 and joked about 6 pack abs. And my W responded, "You've always had them"... and I'm thinking... hmmmmmm....
+ last weekend as I was picking up D14, my W indicated that I could friend request her on facebook... that she would accept, now... this regarding kid contact... I did not decline to her... by I haven't and won't... not atm...
