Alright, after reading your sitch, it's obvious your fiancee is certifiable and you are okay with that? All the threats on your life, killing you, etc. Those are serious serious issues. Have you talked to someone professional?
Bottom line is, what do you want? Are you asking to how to save your R? You really want a R still with him? This is whom you want to have a life with?
Oh and BTW, he's not entirely without fault. You don't need to goad him as well. If you don't want him hanging out with OW, then stop relationship with him PERIOD! Yet you always appear when he wants you to be. All you're doing is fueling the fire. I don't know if you're trying to save him or just pushing things to see how much further you can push.
Usually someone whose life has been threatened several times and physically, doesn't maintain contact as much as you have.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
