I was thinking earlier about the concept of being dim earlier and how it had nothing to do with my personal life. In contrast going dim on him has helped me detach do much that my life is BRIGHT! And that I shouldn't feel bad if sinew of my rays happen to land in his view.
IOW, nothing wrong with him seeing how happy I am in this new improved life, with or without him.
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012