Afternoon update from the cuckoo's nest: Kaffe Diem-thank you for the advice. Strangely I had already decided to hide from him for a couple days and not be online for him to talk to. Your post and the reading I did cemented the idea. I wonder if he is not getting the mental stimulation and adult time with me then turning to the little girl for his 17 year old needs and sex-cake eating is the term I think was used. So less than 48 hours after we saw each other last, he is back on my FB page commenting. Today weird as usual. First post-sane and mature-hopes working out is going well for me since he helped me with a routine. 2 minutes later when I did not respond or go on line even, he follows up with a Lennon quote not attributing it to JL-"I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people." No idea what that means and was unrelated to anything I had put up. On his FB page he is manic again today-posting tons of stuff. One song I am sure is directed to me as it came right after he sent the quote-Lennon's How-look at the lyrics-depression and confusion-his feelings?? The other 2 songs not sure who they are direct to. Jesus give me military guys and foreign dictators any day-easier to predict and analyze what they are thinking and doing than this craziness. Reality is over here cuckoo.