When OM is in the picture, you'll know beyond a doubt. W will avoid you completely. You will become the root of all evil in the world. Based on how she's acting, I don't think OM is involved, I think it all comes down to finances and her not being able to take it anymore.

Worrying about OM isn't going to take you anywhere good.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015