oooooo that reminds me. one other thing she said to her mom
"i feel smothered"
forgot that one.
Then don't push and step back for a little bit. Like I said, she has to want to make the changes for herself. If you push, she will most likely fight you. However, if you begin to draw away she may just decide that she doesn't like that and approach you, and that is when you should begin to talk to her about your R.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012